For the past 3 weeks, I have been relying on autos to get me around in the morning.
I have to haggle like crazy at 6 am in the morning to get to the gym (as a result of which I'd be in a bad mood for an hour) and then once again at 8am, I have to bargain again to get to the office.
Today was another usual day. I thought that the routine would repeat itself. I got into an auto. 'CMH Road', I told the driver. He nodded and started his engine. 'That's a first', I thought to myself. Usually, I have to coax autoriskhaw drivers into driving me the 3 odd kms.
After a short while, the meter started counting really quickly. I instantly thought, So that's why he's willing to take me to CMH road without any extra fare. The meter is rigged.
When the auto finally stopped, the meter read Rs 33. I waited for the driver's demand since the new meter rates have started being implemented. The driver turned around and said to me, 'Pay me Rs 35.'
I was surprised. That's it?
He saw me hesitate and said, 'This is not my autorikshaw. My friend drives it. He's rigged the meter and then demands extra fare from his customers. By the old rates, it's only Rs 27 to get here. I know that.'
I was kind of shell shocked to hear a rick driver openly admit that people of his trade rig meters and extort money.
Anyways, I found out that I was Re 1 short. 'Do you have change if I give you Rs 10 extra?' I asked him.
He: 'Give me whatever you have. That's enough for me.'
I was even more stunned. I told him, 'Thankyou, Bhaiya. Thanks a lot.'
An honest guy who stuck by his principles, in the heart of Bangalore.
After I was done with gym, I got into my second auto ride of the day. This driver demanded Rs 20 extra (we settled for Rs 10) and cursed me whenever his vehicle hit a pothole.
The usual.
Whatay contrast, don't you think?
Thursday, August 5, 2010
Sunday, March 7, 2010
Jam... and Not the Strawberry Kind
I've been living in India since the age of 18. I came to Bangalore when I was 23. The thing that used to infuriate me 8 years ago and that still infuriates me is: cutting lines.
People fail to understand the concept of 'queues'. When they see a queue, what goes through their heads are: 'Cannot understand order. Must disintegrate and create chaos. Chaaarrggee!!'
At my office, we need to x-ray our bags when we leave the premises. Obviously at peak hours, there's bound to be a long line of people waiting to get through. There is this unbelievably annoying woman who, in spite of being sufficiently educated (I remember having learnt about queues in Social Civic classes during the 2nd grade), comes reasonably late, looks at the long queue ahead of herself, cuts in at the front and places her bag in the x-ray machine. Obviously, she is undeniably the queen of the world. I have seen her in action only once, though my colleague tells me it's a regular practice.
Over the weekend, I went grocery shopping at the local mall. Big mistake. Saturday night at the mall is a horrible sight to behold: people at their worst, trying to run over the others who may stand in the way of their trolleys.
I was at the vegetable counter, trying to get my items priced. His Highness was clearly behind me in line, but placed his veggies on the counter before I could. The A/C was off. I was hot and sweaty and quickly reached my breaking point. I promptly shoved his veggies to the side and put mine in. Glares were exchanged but life went sweatily on.
The express counter is supposed to be for 10 items or less, and can be paid in cash only. Of course, nobody really bothers. So I, the idiot, stood in line with my 5 items, while people with overflowing trolleys stood ahead of me. Of course, most of them just had to pay by card. If the cashier tried to explain that cards were not accepted, the customers made a fuss. So really, the 'Express' counter was clearly anything but.
A lady with ice-cream cartons tried to cut in front of me. I, taking advantage of my wide body, wouldn't give her an inch to slide by. The result? She took her place behind me and shoved the cold ice-cream boxes against my back. Puurr-fect.
Another shining example of people's total disregard of maintaining rules is the auto rikshaw driver. He won't go where you want to go. And if he does take you there, he swindles you so that you can't go anywhere else. The public transportation law states something, but clearly he is above it all.
I have to admit that when I came to Bangalore for the first time, I was pretty passive and docile with strangers. I held onto my traits as staunchly and as long as I could.
I'm not the same anymore. And you can't be the same, either. It's not Bangalore that's the problem. I guess every other city has it's demerits. And if you need to survive, you need to adapt.
I only wish that it were good changes that we were taking in. Instead, more often than not, we get to see the ruthless side of others and they of us.
People fail to understand the concept of 'queues'. When they see a queue, what goes through their heads are: 'Cannot understand order. Must disintegrate and create chaos. Chaaarrggee!!'
At my office, we need to x-ray our bags when we leave the premises. Obviously at peak hours, there's bound to be a long line of people waiting to get through. There is this unbelievably annoying woman who, in spite of being sufficiently educated (I remember having learnt about queues in Social Civic classes during the 2nd grade), comes reasonably late, looks at the long queue ahead of herself, cuts in at the front and places her bag in the x-ray machine. Obviously, she is undeniably the queen of the world. I have seen her in action only once, though my colleague tells me it's a regular practice.
Over the weekend, I went grocery shopping at the local mall. Big mistake. Saturday night at the mall is a horrible sight to behold: people at their worst, trying to run over the others who may stand in the way of their trolleys.
I was at the vegetable counter, trying to get my items priced. His Highness was clearly behind me in line, but placed his veggies on the counter before I could. The A/C was off. I was hot and sweaty and quickly reached my breaking point. I promptly shoved his veggies to the side and put mine in. Glares were exchanged but life went sweatily on.
The express counter is supposed to be for 10 items or less, and can be paid in cash only. Of course, nobody really bothers. So I, the idiot, stood in line with my 5 items, while people with overflowing trolleys stood ahead of me. Of course, most of them just had to pay by card. If the cashier tried to explain that cards were not accepted, the customers made a fuss. So really, the 'Express' counter was clearly anything but.
A lady with ice-cream cartons tried to cut in front of me. I, taking advantage of my wide body, wouldn't give her an inch to slide by. The result? She took her place behind me and shoved the cold ice-cream boxes against my back. Puurr-fect.
Another shining example of people's total disregard of maintaining rules is the auto rikshaw driver. He won't go where you want to go. And if he does take you there, he swindles you so that you can't go anywhere else. The public transportation law states something, but clearly he is above it all.
I have to admit that when I came to Bangalore for the first time, I was pretty passive and docile with strangers. I held onto my traits as staunchly and as long as I could.
I'm not the same anymore. And you can't be the same, either. It's not Bangalore that's the problem. I guess every other city has it's demerits. And if you need to survive, you need to adapt.
I only wish that it were good changes that we were taking in. Instead, more often than not, we get to see the ruthless side of others and they of us.
Monday, February 15, 2010
For Matrimonial Purposes
Gone were the days where the girl shyly takes tea to the boy whilst their parents look over approvingly. Gone were the days where the glances and sneak-peeks at each other were 5ms long at 10ms intervals.
So what has the pennukannal come down to ?
Well, take my household.
Sunday, 10:30 am
Dad: "We are going to see 2 boys today. We'll meet one at the mall at 4pm and the other at 6pm."
A low groan from my sis.
Sunday, 2 pm
Mom: "I'm not feeling well. I think we should invite the boys to our house."
A loud groan from me.
Sunday, 3 pm
Dad: "Why can't you girls be clean and tidy?! *Loud sneeze!!* Why do you have to have books everywhere?"
Me: "Why do you always criticize us? I didn't KNOW that we had to be military clean every day of our lives!"
Mom: "Do you have to argue NOW? Somebody help me get out the good tea-set!!"
My sis: "My eyebrows look ok?"
Mom, addressing me: "You look so fat in that! Go and wear something else!"
Me, grumbling: "The boy isn't coming to see ME."
Sunday, 4 pm
The boy (lets call him X) comes over. We introduce ourselves to X. After a short while, we leave X and my sis to speak in private. I occupy myself with F.R.I.E.N.D.S.
After half an hour, we come back and quickly send him off on his way.
"Well?" I asked my sis. "You guys certainly had a lot to talk about."
"He did most of the talking... On his cell phone with his friend!"
We discussed some more and decided that X was not worth it. He was dominating, arrogant and rude.
Neeexxxt!
Mom: "Oh no!! The next boy will arrive just in time for StarSinger Finale!!"
Sis: "Mommmm..."
Mom: "I've been waiting all month for this day!"
Sunday, 6 pm
The boy (Y) arrived. Blah blah. I left my sis alone to watch Chandler being right for once. Blah blah.
It was already past 6:30 and Mom was getting pretty restless. Y and Dad were totally into his career and the different aspects of mechanical engineering.
Me: "I think it's time to start cooking our dinner."
Mom joined my sis and I in the kitchen as I peeled and sliced onions for our sausage curry (Yum!).
Mom: "My Star Singer!"
Me: "So, did you like him?"
Sis: "He's very paavam and conservative... I don't think he'd appreciate our sausage curry."
Me: (Gasp) Naahhiiinn!
Mom: "Great. In that case, I'll scare him off. I'll ask him if he wants anything to drink (as in liquor)."
Sis, laughing: "And what if he says 'yes'?"
Mom winked and said: "In that case, that was a test! I'll show him the door!"
Sunday, 7 pm
Y finally left.
BTW, the Finale of StarSinger went on till 11pm. My mom slept happy. :P
So what has the pennukannal come down to ?
Well, take my household.
Sunday, 10:30 am
Dad: "We are going to see 2 boys today. We'll meet one at the mall at 4pm and the other at 6pm."
A low groan from my sis.
Sunday, 2 pm
Mom: "I'm not feeling well. I think we should invite the boys to our house."
A loud groan from me.
Sunday, 3 pm
Dad: "Why can't you girls be clean and tidy?! *Loud sneeze!!* Why do you have to have books everywhere?"
Me: "Why do you always criticize us? I didn't KNOW that we had to be military clean every day of our lives!"
Mom: "Do you have to argue NOW? Somebody help me get out the good tea-set!!"
My sis: "My eyebrows look ok?"
Mom, addressing me: "You look so fat in that! Go and wear something else!"
Me, grumbling: "The boy isn't coming to see ME."
Sunday, 4 pm
The boy (lets call him X) comes over. We introduce ourselves to X. After a short while, we leave X and my sis to speak in private. I occupy myself with F.R.I.E.N.D.S.
After half an hour, we come back and quickly send him off on his way.
"Well?" I asked my sis. "You guys certainly had a lot to talk about."
"He did most of the talking... On his cell phone with his friend!"
We discussed some more and decided that X was not worth it. He was dominating, arrogant and rude.
Neeexxxt!
Mom: "Oh no!! The next boy will arrive just in time for StarSinger Finale!!"
Sis: "Mommmm..."
Mom: "I've been waiting all month for this day!"
Sunday, 6 pm
The boy (Y) arrived. Blah blah. I left my sis alone to watch Chandler being right for once. Blah blah.
It was already past 6:30 and Mom was getting pretty restless. Y and Dad were totally into his career and the different aspects of mechanical engineering.
Me: "I think it's time to start cooking our dinner."
Mom joined my sis and I in the kitchen as I peeled and sliced onions for our sausage curry (Yum!).
Mom: "My Star Singer!"
Me: "So, did you like him?"
Sis: "He's very paavam and conservative... I don't think he'd appreciate our sausage curry."
Me: (Gasp) Naahhiiinn!
Mom: "Great. In that case, I'll scare him off. I'll ask him if he wants anything to drink (as in liquor)."
Sis, laughing: "And what if he says 'yes'?"
Mom winked and said: "In that case, that was a test! I'll show him the door!"
Sunday, 7 pm
Y finally left.
BTW, the Finale of StarSinger went on till 11pm. My mom slept happy. :P
Friday, January 15, 2010
My Second Korean Phase
This trip to Korea has been a helluva ride.
It has been all about work. 24/7.
There were days when I couldn't wait to get on a flight back to Bangalore. Days where I'd run to the office rest room and cry because of the immense work-pressure I felt. Days where I'd come home late, too tired to cook and have dinner.
Weekends -if I had any- were crap. Xmas and New Years were terrible.
I dreamed about the day when I'd be free from my load.
I left S Korea today.
But this is me wanting to go back.
I know I'm crazy... But, if given a chance, I would only do it all over again.
:)
It has been all about work. 24/7.
There were days when I couldn't wait to get on a flight back to Bangalore. Days where I'd run to the office rest room and cry because of the immense work-pressure I felt. Days where I'd come home late, too tired to cook and have dinner.
Weekends -if I had any- were crap. Xmas and New Years were terrible.
I dreamed about the day when I'd be free from my load.
I left S Korea today.
But this is me wanting to go back.
I know I'm crazy... But, if given a chance, I would only do it all over again.
:)
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